Knowing somebody's your kin typically kills the libido.

My wife has no libido since she got pregnant. What can I do?

You have to know that the lack of daylight can provoke some problem of energy, or problem of libido.

Among healthy young men in the West, who grow up on pornography and sexual imagery on every street corner, reduced libido is a growing epidemic, so it is easy to imagine the power that sexuality can still carry in a more modest culture. And it is worth understanding the positive experiences that women and men can have in cultures where sexuality is more conservatively directed.